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Spanking [Nov. 16th, 2006|09:46 pm]
Childless People
I've been seeing a lot of things about discipline lately on the boards, so I thought I bring it up. Spanking as a form of discipline...do you think it's right or wrong? Do you think it's abusive or not?

IMO...no I don't think it's abusive. I've been spanked, and it never phased me...ever. It didn't turn me into a felon like someone claimed on one of the boards *roll eyes*. In fact, I'm an adult that likes to be spanked for the fun of it.

From: thespianlynn82
2006-11-18 01:56 am (UTC)
no shit, darkmoon

I really wanted someone else to go after her about it. I was extremely offended how she started to say spanking is a form of abuse. I did agree with MJ on how people who have gone through real forms of abuse would get offended by such a statement, despite I don't trust her and I disagree with her on a lot of things.

I almost stopped talking to her about it because it was so offensive. I have a theory that some people are pro-choice till an extent. IF someone doesn't do "their" choice, then they get on others about it. You know...I seriously don't care if people don't want to spank their kids. Fine, don't fucking do it then. However, don't insult parents that do that method by insiuating that are abusing their children...especially when they don't spank their kids that often.

I got pissed with xwoman saying that I was physically abused because of the spanking. If someone seriously knew what abuse was, then the victim of that abuse wouldn't go through with it again in their lifetime? If spanking was seriously a form of abuse, adults wouldn't want it.

I just gave up on her because I'm not going to talk to someone on something they don't know what the fuck they are talking about. I've been verbally ABUSED. I've been spanked. Spanking didn't terrorize me as much as being verbally assaulted and outcasted did.

The funny thing is that she was trying to tell me that I would discredit a person who has been through more trauma than I did. I wouldn't. I told her that. IF the person discredit me that has been through a more traumatic event then me, I wouldn't be pissed. They've been through something much greater than I ever suffered for.

However, what I did tell her is that I get pissed off at people who have NEVER EVER fucking gone through the situation themselve and trying to tell others how they should deal with the situation and discredit them on it. That's what she is fucking doing. She's never been spanked and abused to say how anyone should feel.

As much as I love Fake, darling is the same way. He has never been abused and he has never been spanked. People, who have never been through those situations, should never have the right to tell people what is abuse and how to deal with it when they haven't even deal with it yet.
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